You might have a favorite song in mind for your wedding ceremony, but before you start printing the programs, you’ll want to give it a little more thought. Just because a tune features a sweeping melody or a chance for your soloist to really let loose, the lyrics might not be exactly appropriate for your big day. Here are a few songs to avoid:
This song is beautiful, but it’s about living on after someone you love died, not starting a life together. Also, the boat sank – that’s just bad karma.
Perfect song, right? Wrong. Here are a few sample lyrics that explain why it might not be the most appropriate sentiment for a ceremony: “If I should stay, I would only be in your way. So I’ll go.” “Bittersweet. Memories. That is all I’m taking with me. So good-bye…” “We both know I’m not what you need…”
This tune is more like a creepy stalker’s anthem than a love song.
This is also a beautiful love song, but it wouldn’t be polite to compare the groom to a “beast” during the ceremony.
This would be a big “no-no” during ANY portion of the prelude or processional. As beautiful as it is, you wouldn’t want it to be playing while your mother or future mother-in-law were being seated.
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